Why don’t you use child care services on weekday evenings and Saturdays? Leave the kids for a few hours and have a serious conversation with your husband. If you want to keep your father’s seat, you should quit the game and cooperate more in parenting. My mom used her child as an excuse and didn’t divorce me. I should have. We told you to, but you didn’t.Was she happy? Unhappiness even now. Because my husband doesn’t change. I don’t know why I’m so emotional with my husband that I can’t judge what they’re talking about. I’m so nervous about my husband. Now he’s obsessed with his son, his brother, and his daughters are emotional trash.